The following article was found in one of my friend blog. I would like to share it here as it make me feel better. Would it? Well, at least it gave me a comfort excuse for being a single..The article said:
Umur makin bertambah setahun demi setahun...tapi Prince/Princess Charming x muncul2 gak lagi..bayang hidung pun tak nampak2..huhuhu..
Soalan cepu mas dari saudara mara ketika berkumpul di hari raya atau di majlis kenduri kendara semakin menyesakkan kepala, "bila nak kawen ni, si polan, si polan dah selamat dah..kau bila lagi?"
Pening? memang pening..emak kat kampong menangis2 tengok kita tak kahwin lagi..Kalau ada kekasih hati, boleh juga kita kenalkan dengan family. Kalau tak ada, macam mana?
Jangan pressure diri untuk cari pasangan..disebabkan kita tengok kawan kita sorang demi sorang naik pelamin, kita main grab je sesapa depan mata..Kalau kena yg baik tak pe lah kan? Kalau dapat yg tah apa apa, macam mana? masa tu nak menyesal pun dah tak berguna...Kita kena ingat, semua tu ketentuan Allah..dan jangan anggap single life ni membosankan..well, here's 18 reasons why it's safer, cleaner, less intrusive and more fun to stay single. . .
Flirting is encouraged. Tak payah nak rasa bersalah tak tentu pasal bila anda menjeling2 pakwe handsome/awek cun kat sebelah meja anda masa anda kat restoran atau bertembung di shopping complex
Anda boleh keluar bila2 masa anda suka & tak perlu nak report kat sesapa anda balik jam berapa (unless duduk dgn emak lah)
Tak payah nak pening2 what to wear or how do i look kalau nak keluar p shopping or jalan2 (tak ada sapa nak judge anda, melainkan anda memang jaga penampilan)
Your money is your own. Anda boleh spend gaji sebulan anda kalau anda mahu & tak ada siapa yg akan membebel2 di telinga anda
Rumah anda hakmilik anda & mengikut citarasa anda macam mana anda nak design rumah anda (tak payah nak bertegang leher pilih perabot or kaler cat)
Anda hanya masak bila anda rasa lapar dan tak perlu masak bila anda on diet
You can have the TV remote all to yourself. Nak tidur peluk tv pun tak ada sapa yg larang!
Tidur yang lena sampai ke pagi sebab anda tak diganggu oleh dengkuran pasangan anda ataupon bunyi kentut dia...unless it's yours & then it doesn't matter!!
Boleh mandi or duduk dalam bathroom lama2 (tak ada sapa nak ketuk pintu melainkan anda menyewa dgn org lain)
Tak perlu nak berebut katil dengan sesapa. Katil itu anda yg punya!!
Tak perlu nak keluarkan duit anda untuk belikan pasangan anda hadiah or belanja dia tgk movie or makan
You don't have to worry about being nice to your mother-in-law.
Kurang stress! Anda dah cukup banyak masalah di office, tak payah nak tambah masalah pasangan anda yg merajuk tiba2 tanpa ada sebab2 yg munasabah.
Anda boleh berkawan dgn sesapa saja yg anda mahu & berapa ramai sekalipon...anda kan single??
You can have fun and spend time with your friends. A lot of married people don’t have a lot of time to spend with their friends anymore.
You can really focus on your career, education, fitness, and goals.
Anda akan lebih mendekatkan diri anda dengan Allah kerana anda mempunyai banyak masa terluang. Itukan lebih baik?
You are free. You don’t have anything holding you down or back.
Jangan risau, setiap manusia di ciptakan berpasang-pasangan. Cepat atau lambat jodoh kita, hanya Allah yg tahu. Berdoa kepada Allah & always believe these 3 things:-
Allah Answers your prayers in 3 ways:
He says YES and gives it to you
He says NO and gives you better
He says WAIT and gives you the best
He says YES and gives it to you
He says NO and gives you better
He says WAIT and gives you the best
